Any of my female readers who are like me and, well… (ahem) generously endowed, already know that sports bras can be tricky business. I’ve always thought it was ironic that those of us who need support the most seem to be furthest from the minds and intentions of sports bra designers.

First of all, it’s all but impossible to find a plus-size sports bra that will stand up to more impact than a gentle stroll [the rationale being, I assume, that we’re pretty much just walking from the car to the Krispy Kreme counter anyway]. My working theory is that whoever is advising clothing manufacturers about the fitness habits of larger women is the same person who thinks we all want to wear animal prints and fuchsia fringe. Size 10? Soft navy in a subdued, classy fabric. Size 16? How about LEOPARD PRINT WITH SEQUINS?!?

And once you do find a sports bra that will actually keep “the girls” restrained, it’s so hard to put on that it’s a workout in itself. In college – and I am not even kidding with this – I actually pulled a muscle in my shoulder trying to get out of a sports bra! And I didn’t even mind the painful muscle strain, because in the moments before it, I’d been mildly concerned that we were going to have a “Pooh stuck in Rabbit’s door” kind of situation on our hands. Now that would’ve been an embarrassing call to the paramedics.

Up until now, my sports bra injuries have been primarily self-inflicted. Yesterday, however, the sports bra claimed a new victim: my six-month old son. I had to feed him immediately after Jazzercise class; so he was lying across my lap after nursing. I reached up to try to wrangle the sports bra/torture instrument back into place, my hand slipped and…. WHAP! I smacked my unsuspecting baby right in the face with my knuckles.

Now, as you can imagine, this was more than a little surprising to him, and absolutely horrifying to me. A smack in the face is such a painful, disrespectful thing to do to another person; and even though this particular smack in the face was completely accidental, it’s hard to explain that to a six-month old infant whose relaxing lunch just had a terrible ending.

We both cried it out, and of course he’s fine now. But I actually rescheduled getting his picture taken yesterday afternoon because of the red spot above his eye — no one else would’ve noticed it, probably, but for me it would’ve been a permanent reminder of that unhappy moment.

So, I will be feeding MLM post-post-workout-shower from now on; and if anyone knows someone in the design arena of women’s athletic wear, tell them I’d like to set up a meeting!

MJ Pullen

M.J. Pullen is a distracted writer and the mom of two boys in Roswell, Georgia, where she is absolutely late for something important right now. Her books include quirky romantic comedies and playful women's fiction. She blogs erratically with writing advice, random observations, and reflections on raising very loud kids and dogs. Join her Distracted Readers newsletter list for updates, free content, giveaways and more.